Weight problem

Gay guys are very interested in appearance and therefore a realiable source to ask about ones weight. They look at you with an objective eye, and tell you what they really think. Not like a hetero man who would say anything to get into your pants. However, this presents me with a dilemma. Idea was to lose the weight I first lost last year, and then slowly gained again during the autumn. But when gay guy said I look better now because I have a butt and big boobs, and not even he cared about my belly. Hmmm. What about a middle way? Lose say 5 kilos would make me happy, and I'd still keep most of my butt...